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What Would You Do if You Knew You Beloved?

1/10/2021

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[Jesus] saw the heavens torn apart and the Spirit descending like a dove on him. And a voice came from heaven, “You are my Son, the Beloved; with you I am well pleased.” Mark 1:10b-11

What would you do if you knew you were beloved, cherished beyond measure? I would hope that we all have had that experience – if not now, then at some point in the past. Of course, because we are human beings our expressions and experiences of love frequently get watered down or tangled up. This doesn’t happen because of bad intentions usually, but because we get tired, worn out, confused, overwhelmed with our own neediness; and so we either can’t make the effort to give love, or we have a hard time receiving it.

So, I’ll ask it again: what would you do is you knew you were beloved – full stop? What difference would that make to you, to the way you live with yourself, to the way you “live and move and have your being in the world”?

We know that babies don’t make good progress in their developmental milestones of crawling, walking, exploring, relating to others if they don’t have a sense of security in their parents’ love and care. That love gives them confidence and support to try something new – even if it seems daunting and scary. The love of parents, family, and caretakers surround and support the child. Not only are they encouraged and cheered in their progress, but they are held and given time to re-gather their feelings and their psyche until they are ready to be brave and try the next new or difficult thing. Without this kind of unconditional love, a child’s development is harder and slower.

What would you do if you knew you were beloved by God?

Like so much of Mark’s Gospel, this morning’s passage telling us of Jesus’ baptism is direct and to the point. John, the one often referred to as “The Fore-runner”, the Baptizer, is out east of Jerusalem in the Judean wilderness, preaching and calling people to repentance, to be baptized in the Jordan River as a sign of their preparation to welcome God’s next great act – the appearance of one more worthy than John was. And people came. They had a sense that they needed a new beginning; they symbolically needed to put their past separation from God behind them; they had to put away their old expectations so they could get ready to accept the new.

In going out into the wilderness to be baptized by John, the people were re-enacting (at least on some level), the story of the Exodus when God led the Hebrew people out of slavery in Egypt, through the waters of the Red Sea, and into the wilderness where they would come to know God’s love, and character, and purpose. The wilderness – no matter where it was – has ever since been a symbol for that Exodus experience; a place to meet God in profound and life-changing ways.

Jesus came too, to be baptized in the Jordan. And as he was coming up out of that River Jordan water, he saw the “the heavens torn apart and the Spirit descending like a dove on him.” And he heard God’s voice saying, “You are my Son, the Beloved; with you I am well-pleased.”

As we picture this scene in our minds we need to be clear that the heavens opening, and the dove descending, and the voice sounding was not from far-off above the earth’s atmosphere. The people of New Testament times – including John and Jesus, and Mark – would have understood this experience to be filled with immediacy. God was very close by, just beyond sight normally, almost as if in the next room. The opening of the heavens would have been like opening a sky-light in your house, and letting light and fresh air pour in.

What came to Jesus in that theophany, in that revelation, was the power of God’s love. The baptism was the start of his public ministry, and Jesus was going to need every ounce of awareness of being beloved, of being suffused with the Holy Spiirt, of being energized with divine love for him to be able to carry out his vocation and mission over the next three years.

John baptized with water for repentance; the Holy Spirit baptizes with the power of love.

Today is one of the four great baptismal feast days of the Church, and we will be renewing our baptism in a few minutes. This is one of those days that – if we could – we would have a baptismal candidate. And most often that person to be baptized would be a baby, perhaps dressed in a white christening gown. It would be a wonderful celebration for the family and the parish, a blessing of the child as we marked his or her entry into the life of Christ and the life of the Church; a time of welcome and joy.

But sometimes in the midst of christening a young child the emphasis gets puts in the wrong place and we think about how beautiful the baby is, about the happiness of the event, about the family celebration. All of that is true, but…we can miss the life-changing nature of baptism. We can overlook the high calling of following Jesus, we can let our attention be diverted from the high stakes of Christian discipleship. For those of us who were baptized as children it is important for us to be reminded from time to time of the true nature of baptism – the holy work of the Holy Spirit in us and through us.

For baptism is connected to the Exodus story. It is our being rescued from bondage of sin and death, through the waters so that we may be truly free to love, worship, and serve the Lord our God, just as much as it was for the Israelites going through the Red Sea.

Last week I invited us to begin to ask ourselves who we wanted to be – as Christian people and as a church – when we finally come through this pandemic. More importantly, I invited us to ask who we thought God wanted us to be. And I suggested that preparing to renew our baptismal vows, here at the beginning of the new year, was a good way to start that kind of reflection and discernment. I sent out the five baptismal promise questions for you to think and pray about.

In the intervening days, we have experienced an horrific and violent attack on our Capitol that will take time to fully absorb and understand. But what we do know is that even though there were some religious symbols displayed in the crowd, this was not the Way of Jesus. The vast majority of symbols and slogans represented ideologies and movements that are hate-filled and death-dealing.

So it is even more important that we can gather here today and re-commit ourselves to living the Way of Jesus, to being Christian disciples.

Take a moment and think about one of those promises in the Baptismal Covenant, or one of those phrases in the Apostles’ Creed that might have spoken to you, might have resonated with you. That is very likely the area that God would like you to focus on – at least for now. Ask yourself if there is something you can do or learn or practice that will make your discipleship stronger, truer, clearer.

And if it seems like a daunting task, it probably will be – and that is where the love comes in. The answer to each baptismal promise is: I will, with God’s help. The help that God gives us is the power of love, the power of God’s love – for us, in us, through us.

Jesus stepped into those waters of baptism and came up from the river knowing to his core that he is God’s beloved. Our baptism fills us with the knowledge that we, also, are God’s beloved – even though we have to be reminded over and over and over again, just like that little child taking a few tottering steps and then needing to look over their shoulder to Mom or Dad for reassurance and encouragement, remembering that they are loved.

We are beloved by God. We are called to a life of worship and service that requires courage, truth, and humility; and we will do so “with God’s help”, with the power of love.

Let us pray.
I am no longer my own but yours. Put me to what you will, rank me with whom you will; put me to doing, put me to suffering; let me be employed for you or laid aside for you, exalted for you or brought low for you; let me be full, let me be empty, let me have all things, let me have nothing; I freely and wholeheartedly yield all things to your pleasure and disposal. And now, glorious and blessed God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit, you are mine and I am yours. So be it. And the covenant now made on earth, let it be ratified in heaven. Amen.  ~ Covenant Prayer from the British Methodist Church
 
Victoria Geer McGrath
All Saints’ Church, Millington, NJ
First Sunday after Epiphany: Baptism of our Lord
January 10, 2021
 

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Increasing in Wisdom

1/10/2021

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And Jesus increased in wisdom and in years, and in divine and human favor. Luke 2:52

The old year has passed, and the new year lies open before us; let us pray with one heart and mind. Silence is kept. As we rejoice in the gift of this new year so may the light of your presence, O God, set our hearts on fire with love for you; now and for ever. Amen.

Often at the start of a film or novel or television drama there is an opening scene that takes place in a time or location other than the one the main part of the story inhabits. For some people this is an intriguing story-telling device, alerting the audience to some thread or event whose importance will be revealed later on. For others, this is out-of-order scene is just confusing and annoying.

I hope that our Gospel passage this morning is not confusing or annoying, because it does come outside of the chronological flow of the general pattern of the liturgical year. We are in the Christmas season, and Epiphany, when we celebrate the arrival of the Magi in Bethlehem and the homage they pay to the Christ Child, is still to come on this Wednesday; so it is worth asking why we are hearing this particular story about Jesus as a 12-year old today.

There are a few detailed answers to the question, and one major reason. The detailed answers have to do with the intersection of the secular calendar with the church calendar, as well as with the Biblical material itself.

This year, this Christmas season of 2020-2021 is one of those years when we celebrate two Sundays after Christmas (Christmas I and Christmas II). That doesn’t happen every year. And even when it does, we often use the Second Sunday after Christmas to focus on the Epiphany; to make that our Epiphany celebration. But there are three possible choices for the Gospel on this day: two from Mathew and one from Luke. The readings from Matthew are either the Flight into Egypt – when Joseph is warned in a dream to take Mary and the Baby Jesus and flee to Egypt for safety from King Herod’s murderous wrath; or the story of the Magi, which we also hear on Epiphany. The reading from Luke is the one we have this morning, where Mary and Joseph have traveled to Jerusalem for Passover with their son – now 12 years old.

Of the four Gospels only Matthew and Luke give us any description of Jesus’ earliest days. After Matthew relates the Flight into Egypt we only hear a few more verses about Joseph being told in a dream to return from Egypt, but not to go back to Bethlehem and instead settle in Nazareth.

Luke, on the other hand, gives us more. First, the account of Jesus’ circumcision at eight days old in accordance with Jewish Law and custom – which is celebrated in the Feast of the Holy Name. Second is what we know as the Feast of the Presentation, which we also call Candlemas, when Jesus is presented in the Temple at forty days old – again in accordance with Jewish Law and custom – to be offered and dedicated to God in thanksgiving for a first-born male child. We celebrate this feast on February 2nd.

Finally, there is the story we have this morning, about Jesus as a 12-year old. After this we hear nothing about Jesus’ life or that of his family until he begins his public ministry approximately eighteen years later.

This is the out-of-order part for us – to hear this story now. And what a story it is! The family has travelled to Jerusalem for Passover as they do every year, along with a group of friends, neighbors, and relatives all travelling together to and from Nazareth; 80 miles each way on foot. If this is something the family did every year, it is perhaps not surprising that they didn’t know Jesus’ exact whereabouts at first. Walking with a friend or a relative would have been very understandable – after all, what 12-year old boy doesn’t want a bit of independence from his parents? But once  it was clear that Jesus was not in the extended travel party, panic ensued, sending Joseph and Mary back to Jerusalem to try to find him.

In New Testament times that ceremony that we know from our Jewish friends as a bar mitzvah did not exist; that only came into being in the Middle Ages. But a boy’s twelfth birthday was the beginning of increased intensity in his religious and spiritual learning. No doubt Jesus had already begun this, and was intrigued, perhaps hungry for more; perhaps a growing sense of his own identity and vocation was coming to the fore and he wanted to hear from people outside his family or his own synagogue and be able to ask questions about God and the Scriptures and what it all meant. So he stayed behind in the Temple, satisfying his curiosity and sharpening his skills in rabbinic rhetorical debate. “And all who heard him were amazed at his understanding and his answers.”

When Mary and Joseph found him in a flood of relief, gratitude, and anger that any parent knows after searching for and finding a lost child, Jesus says in a response that is both cheeky and innocent: "Why were you searching for me? Did you not know that I must be in my Father's house? – or ‘on my Father’s business?’” Jesus here is displaying the perspective of his childhood as well as the vocation beyond his years.

The family returns to Nazareth, and we hear nothing more about him until his baptism as an adult in response to the ministry of his cousin John. “And Jesus increased in wisdom and in years, and in divine and human favor,” Luke tells us.

We have this story now, in Christmastide, because it is part of Jesus’ childhood, and so the season stretches to include it. But coming at the start of the New Year, when we often focus on what might be ahead for us, and what we might want to accomplish in the coming twelve months, it is also a lens through which we can view our own spiritual growth and development.

How can we increase in wisdom, as well as in years, and in divine and human favor? The wisdom Luke refers to, of course, is divine wisdom – that sense of being in touch with God; of trusting God’s loving providence; of both understanding God’s purposes for us and for the world, and yet being content with not knowing, with not seeing the whole picture.

Being in “divine and human favor” is not about trying to get God and other people to like us or approve of us; after all, God will never love us any more when we are at our best than he already does when we are at our worst. But as we grow and develop and become more Christ-like we will naturally develop a greater affinity and accord with our fellow human beings; we will see them as siblings in God’s family, not as enemies or adversaries. As we grow in spiritual depth and stature we will pay more attention to our own short-comings than we do those of others, and we will learn to rejoice in the blessings and accomplishments of those around us; the focus will be off of us.

So back to our question: How can we increase in wisdom, as well as in years, and in divine and human favor in this new year?
There are still challenges a-plenty ahead of us in 2021 before we are done with this pandemic and its medical, political, economic, and social and racial upheaval. I know that some days it feels like all you can do is buckle your seatbelt and hang on for dear life, and so the idea doing anything different seems like just too much.

But it has been clear to me for a while now that when this is all over – whenever that may be – we will be different than we were before. We will be a different church. That’s not good or bad; it just is. We will be different than we were before because of what we have all lived through. We will be different because of the people who have moved or died. We will be different because of new people who have joined and will join us. We will be different because the world in which we serve God and carry out Christ’s mission is different. Most of all, I hope we will be different because we will have grown closer to God; because we have been more intentional in wanting our lives to be an embodiment of God’s love and purpose; because we have learned a little better how to listen to God speaking to us through prayer and Scripture and silence – to grow into the full stature of Christ.

So it bears asking the questions: Who or what kind of church do we want to be? And more importantly, who or what kind of church does God want us to be?

There is no instant answer, but these are questions that we need to be asking actively and over time, and to be pondering them and our responses as Mary did when the family returned from Jerusalem.

Next Sunday we will have the opportunity to renew our baptismal vows, as it is the Feast of the Baptism of our Lord. And we will be asked, as we are every time we say the Baptismal Covenant, to affirm our faith in the words of the Apostles’ Creed, and to re-commit to living the Christian life as shaped by the five questions. I would ask you to take some time during the week ahead to reflect on that Creed and those five questions – and I’ll send them out so you can have them ready to hand. Consider if there is an area of your life or faith that you would like to focus on in the coming year; something you might like to know more about, something you want to get better at doing, an attitude or mindset that you would like God to change, or a spiritual practice that you would like to learn, or ways that we together can respond in Christ’s love to our surrounding community as we learn to be truer disciples.

Our renewal as the Body of Christ, as Jesus’ followers – whether as individuals or as the parish as a whole – doesn’t come just by wishing for it, but by prayer and practice. It is my hope that next week’s Renewal of Vows will be an opportunity to start asking those questions of ourselves, and putting ourselves in the way of listening and responding to God in a more intentional way, so that we may increase in wisdom and faith, and so be more truly God’s servants in God’s world.

Let us pray, in the words of St. Paul:
I pray that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give us all a spirit of wisdom and revelation as we come to know him, so that, with the eyes of our hearts enlightened, we may know what is the hope to which he has called us, what are the riches of his glorious inheritance among the saints, and what is the immeasurable greatness of his power for us who believe. Amen.

Victoria Geer McGrath
All Saints’ Church, Millington, NJ
Second Sunday of Christmas
January 3, 2021
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Christmas Light

12/27/2020

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What has come into being in him was life, and the life was the light of all people. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not overcome it. John 1:3b-5

This is the time of year when we are all looking for light. The days are at their shortest, the temperatures have dropped, and this year in particular we stay close to home (or at least confined indoors) more than we have probably ever been. Have you noticed how quickly people put up Christmas trees and outdoor decorations? We are all looking for light and cheer.

That is no surprise; it has been an incredibly difficult nine months since the pandemic struck New Jersey and then the rest of the country. Some of us have experienced the illness and death of people we love (whether from COVID or not), some of us have had our employment and income disrupted, we’ve been isolated from others to varying degrees, we’ve all had to learn to do our jobs and our lives differently than we’ve done them before.

And adding to the challenges have been an incredibly turbulent election season and renewed attention to the way our society understands and responds to questions of race, racism, and difference. It’s as if the pandemic had taken all the pieces that make up our life and thrown them into the air in the middle of a gale. All this leaves us feeling disoriented, off-kilter, fearful, and suffering at some level or another.

It’s no wonder people are looking for light and cheer and a bit of comfort.

The Gospel of John begins, not with a story, but with a proclamation that the God who created the world – all life, all matter, all being – has come into history and the human race; has come as life and light. “What has come into being in him was life, and the life was the light of all people. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not overcome it.”

The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not overcome it.

That light is Jesus, born in a specific time and place, to a particular family, in a poor community, to a minor ethnic and religious group within a powerful trans-national empire. The Savior of humankind, the Lord of all creation, the Light of the world and eternity, born in such smallness, such meanness; as the medieval carol puts it, “heaven and earth in little space.”

And yet this tiny, inauspicious beginning did not diminish God’s light. The older King James translation uses the word “comprehend”, meaning understand, grasp, contain, encapsulate, overcome: “the light shineth in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not.” The Light of Christ was not overcome by the darkness that could neither understand nor contain him.

This is the Light we celebrate in the birth of Jesus, remembering that he did not remain a helpless infant but grew to adulthood, challenging the powers-that-be and taking upon himself the sufferings of the world before destroying death, the last enemy. It is no wonder that the darkness cannot comprehend and overcome the Light who is Christ.

At Christmas we celebrate Jesus’ birth in Bethlehem, and we also celebrate the birth of Christ in our hearts and the coming of the Light into our lives – not just once at our baptism or confirmation, and not just on Sundays or whenever we formally worship God, but every day. The Light of Christ longs to live in us to guide us and to empower us to be beacons of God’s love in a dark world – “let every heart prepare him room.”

We are all looking for light, and comfort, and cheer, and celebration, and the cherished familiar – this year in particular. But if this Christmas we look for comfort only, we will miss God’s power for healing and for ministry. If we look for good cheer only, we will miss God’s hope. If we look only for a jolly celebration, we will miss true joy. If we look only for the familiar, we will miss God’s truth.

Humble, healing power; hope; joy; truth – this is the Good News, the Light of Christ which has come into our very midst, the Christmas that can live in our hearts every day. This is the gift that we can help bring to birth in our world as Jesus invites us, with him, to be the Light of the World. Amen.

Victoria Geer McGrath
All Saints’ Church, Millington, NJ
Christmas Eve 2020
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Seeing with Holy Imagination

11/22/2020

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Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when was it that we saw you hungry and gave you food, or thirsty and gave you something to drink? And when was it that we saw you a stranger and welcomed you, or naked and gave you clothing? And when was it that we saw you sick or in prison and visited you?’ Matthew 25:37-39

How do we see one another? That question, of course, is not about how we physically see one another, but about how we view, approach, understand people outside our ourselves or our close circles. Do we tend to view others with a wait-and-see attitude when we first meet them, or do we start from the assumption that the person before us is trustworthy and approachable – at least until proven otherwise? Do we start from the position that someone who looks different from me, whatever that difference may be, is someone who has to prove their worth and value; or do we start from a place of healthy curiosity about the nature and value of that difference?

The French writer and aviator Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, in his book “The Little Prince”, wrote, “It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.” Learning to see this way takes time, and curiosity, and patience, emotional imagination, and sometimes courage.

There is a part of us that sees difference and sometimes registers that as “threat” – and sometimes that sense of threat is true, and it would be wise to listen to it. That God-given intuition has evolved over millenia and is there for a reason; it’s part of our survival instinct.

On the other hand, at the other extreme, we may be tempted to blow right past any notion of difference at all, telling ourselves that we “only see a human being” in front of us, and that nothing that shows outwardly is of any importance of all – whether that be the way they dress or speak, their skin color or facial features, anything the person chooses to outwardly display about their culture or a group they may belong to. That is a temptation that we need to avoid. We know that our physical, cultural, and ethnic make-up all contribute to who we are and how we understand the world; we can’t dismiss those things out of hand, whether for ourselves or for someone else.

How do we see one another? How do we know one another?

That is a crucial question that is asked by this scene that Jesus poses in his last hours of teaching in the Temple before the Last Supper, before the Crucifixion. He paints a picture of God’s justice being like a king, the world’s true Lord, who brings the world back into balance by sorting out the righteous from the unrighteous, and the criteria used for this sorting out is the way each group behaves towards the hungry, the thirsty, the stranger, the naked, the sick, the imprisoned – all those cast-offs of mainstream and polite society.

What did the righteous see? They say people who had needs. What did the unrighteous see? They saw people who were not worthy of their time and effort. And yet the king, representing Jesus in the story, invites both groups to look more closely, to see on a deeper level: Truly I tell you, just as you did it or did not do it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me.

St. John Chrysostom, in the fourth century said, “If you cannot find Christ in the beggar at the church door you will not find him in the chalice.”

Jesus is asking us, then, to look at others with the heart and, ultimately, to see Jesus himself. This is part of justice and holy judgment, part of bringing the world back into balance by learning to see others through the eyes of faith and. by seeing them, value them as God’s beloved ones.

That is a very hard thing to do in our culture right now – and has been increasingly so for quite a number of years. So much stress has been put on the objective way of seeing the world, particularly in our political dealings with one another. This data-driven, objective way of seeing can be manipulative, it is seeing others only from afar, never finding out what they are really like in their complex, many-layered, many-faceted selves. That kind of objective seeing only drives us further apart, and certainly does not lead us to see Christ in others who are very different from us.

The New York Times columnist David Brooks*, who comments on both cultural and politics and has become a person of faith in recent years, says that this political type knowledge that pollsters use has led to an epidemic of mis-seeing, led to a feeling of being unknown and unseen by the rest of the world, led to a sense of alienation and isolation from others. It divides and separates us.
Instead, Brooks says, we need to embrace the spiritual way of knowing, of seeing the depth of the other, with all their very real difference from ourselves, and value them for who they are. That leads to connection and community.

We need to have a holy and respectful curiosity, a willingness to be vulnerable and learn about one another. In doing so we may well learn more about ourselves, and the bonds of generous humanity that can tie us together.

Christ is the world’s true Lord and just Judge, and he bids us to see, respect, and value him in the face of all others, so that we are indeed seeing rightly with the heart and taking our place in the re-balancing and repair of God’s world.

Let us pray.
Day by day, dear Lord, three things I pray: to see thee more clearly, to love thee more dearly, to follow thee more nearly, day by day. Amen.

*For reference see Brooks’ address at the awarding of the Abraham Kuyper Prize, November 17, 2020 on Calvin University's YouTube channel.

Victoria Geer McGrath
All Saints’ Church, Millington, NJ
First Sunday before Advent (Last Sunday after Pentecost)
November 22, 2020
 

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Blessing & Unity: Father Forgive

11/15/2020

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Jesus said, “It is as if a man, going on a journey, summoned his slaves and entrusted his property to them; to one he gave five talents, to another two, to another one, to each according to his ability.” Matthew 25:14

This is the Sunday that we begin our approach to Advent, that time when the old Church year and the new one overlap with the themes of justice, hope, judgment, peace, and the longing for Christ’s coming at the end of this age, at Christmas, and in our hearts each day. It is in many ways a time outside of time – an opportunity to reflect on time itself, and God’s purposes for us and for the world.

The Gospel passage before us this morning is one that is often read and understood to be about judgment – God as the master who goes away on a long journey, having left vast and abundant resources with his servants. A “talent” in Jesus’ day was a unit of money equal to fifteen years’ wages for an ordinary laborer. The amount entrusted to each of the three servants was almost incomprehensible, as is so often the case in parables. When the master finally returns – without having given any instructions about what is to be done with the money – he criticizes and penalizes the servant who was given the smallest amount and just buried it.

To be clear, we must not take away from this the idea that Jesus is urging his hearers to look for a good rate of return from the stock market and punishing those who don’t or can’t do so. Jesus, and the prophets before him, actually did have a great deal to say about money and material goods and how they are to be used. But the vast and abundant resources in this parable are the resources of the faith and history and purposes of God for Israel to be a blessing to the world that were being squandered in their complicity with Rome, and the Roman claim to be the final arbiters and controllers of the meaning and value of life. So much of Jesus’ sharp rebuke to the leaders of his time came to fruition in 70 AD when the Roman Empire finally destroyed Jerusalem and razed the Temple.

The third servant in the parable acted from fear and distrust of a master he clearly did not know or understand. The consequences of his behavior are a result of his false reading and understanding of the master’s intentions. He brought upon himself the behavior he expected and feared.

So what were the master’s intentions; and what are God’s intentions and purposes? In the parable, the master’s intention was that the servants would be good stewards of the resources which had been entrusted to them. They had been given a treasure and they should have let it continue to blossom and grow – not molder in the ground.

Going all the way back to Genesis, to the beginning, God created the world for the sheer joy, creativity, and goodness of it. And God created humankind to tend, and care for, and be wise and grateful stewards of the good creation.

And in the covenant with Abraham and Sarah God states it even more plainly: “I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you, and make your name great, so that you will be a blessing...  and in you all the families of the earth shall be blessed.” (Gen. 12:2-3) God’s purpose for his people, for those whom he has called is to be a blessing to others.

The catechism in our Prayer Book puts it in a different way, by asking what is the mission of the Church, its purpose: “The mission of the Church is to restore all people to unity with God and each other in Christ.” (2x) This deepens and sharpens God’s intent. Not only are we to be agents of God’s blessing to others, but we are to actively work for the unity of all people with one another and with God. That unity is spiritual, personal, societal – not just religious. In other words, as much as we (personally and as a Church) are called to do the work of evangelism which will help people to be consciously connected to God in Christ, we are also called to work for reconciliation and unity between and among people.

Reconciliation and unity do not mean uniformity or facile glossing-over of differences. Instead, reconciliation means seeing the other as a someone of value, worthy of love and respect, seeing the other as being made in God’s image, someone who we can learn from as much as we can give to. None of this is easy. The work of reconciliation is hard, but it is necessary, as we know in our current political and social climate post-election. And yet, reconciliation is fundamental to God’s purpose; it is part of the Advent hope.

A very striking and poignant example of the ministry of reconciliation is found in the life of Coventry Cathedral in England. Eighty years ago, on November 14-15, 1940, the city of Coventry was bombed – part of the Nazi blitzkrieg. Nearly all of the city center was destroyed, and almost six hundred people were killed. St. Michael’s Cathedral, a fourteenth-century building, was demolished. But the story has a different ending than despair and destruction the bombs intended.

The very next morning Father Richard Howard, the Cathedral provost, put forth a vision to rebuild as a sign of faith, trust, and hope in God’s future – not just for the Church, but for the city itself. This vision gave people an alternative to their feelings of bitterness and hatred. Eventually the Cathedral developed a Ministry of Peace and Reconciliation, which works in areas of conflict in the world with both prayer and practical support.

The outward sign of this hope is described on the Cathedral’s website: “Shortly after the destruction, the cathedral stonemason, Jock Forbes, noticed that two of the charred medieval roof timbers had fallen in the shape of a cross. He set them up in the ruins where they were later placed on an altar of rubble with the moving words ‘Father Forgive’ inscribed on the Sanctuary wall. Another cross was fashioned from three medieval nails by local priest, the Rev’d Arthur Wales. The Cross of Nails has become the symbol of Coventry’s ministry of reconciliation.” The ruins of the former building form a forecourt to the modern building, completed in 1962. Together the two structures “create one living Cathedral.”

Reconciliation between God and humanity, person to person, in all ways and at all levels of society, is part of God’s purpose for the world; and those of us who follow Jesus are called to participate in that work in whatever ways we can – small or great. It is part of the Advent hope, part of what we long for and pray for in this season.

Reconciliation requires honesty about wrongs done and harm inflicted. It requires confession and a willingness to examine our own attitudes and actions. Reconciliation needs humility and a willingness to be about forgiveness and peace-making. Reconciliation depends on us knowing we are all one human family, held in God’s just and loving embrace.

May Christ’s ministry of reconciliation be part of our prayer, our work, our longing, and our hope this Advent-tide.

Let us pray in the words of the Coventry Litany of Reconciliation:
All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.
The hatred which divides nation from nation, race from race, class from class,
FATHER FORGIVE
The covetous desires of people and nations to possess what is not their own,
FATHER FORGIVE
The greed which exploits the work of human hands and lays waste the earth,
FATHER FORGIVE
Our envy of the welfare and happiness of others,
FATHER FORGIVE
Our indifference to the plight of the imprisoned, the homeless, the refugee,
FATHER FORGIVE
The lust which dishonours the bodies of men, women and children,
FATHER FORGIVE
The pride which leads us to trust in ourselves and not in God,
FATHER FORGIVE
Be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. Amen.

Victoria Geer McGrath
All Saints’ Church, Millington, NJ
Second Sunday before Advent
November 15, 2020
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Jesus' Manifesto for Christian Living

11/1/2020

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Jesus said, “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” Matthew 5:3-4

We are gathered here this morning to mark our parish feast day, to remember our connection to the Communion of Saints and pray for those who have gone before us in the faith, to celebrate the Eucharist together for the first time in eight months. And in one of the synchronicities in life, the last time we were together for Communion on March 8 it was the start of daylight savings, and today is the day we return to standard time. Our experience of being apart in so many ways has been bounded by the time changes we observe.
And we hear these very familiar words of Jesus, those we call the Beatitudes, and we draw comfort from them – a recognizable touchstone in the sea of so much that is uncertain and unfamiliar, and feelings of frustration, sadness, confusion, anger, and just plain being fed up. It is good to have a safe and familiar rock upon which to stand. And yet, if we only hear these words as solace, we will have missed the fullness of what Jesus wants to say to us.

The Beatitudes are the start of the Sermon on the Mount, Matthew’s presentation of much of Jesus’ core teaching, early on in his public ministry. But they are not just philosophical statements to consider, good advice for those who might like to ponder such things.

It helps to remember that just prior to this scene, Jesus has called two pairs of brothers to give up everything and follow him. They travel throughout Galilee and attract a huge following with people coming on foot from all over, even over a hundred miles away – hungry for the healing, deliverance, and wholeness that they have heard comes to those who were in Jesus presence. Jesus is gathering around him a new community, founded on a renewal of God’s purposes for humanity, a fresh understanding and experience of God’s presence and promise.

Just like God makes a covenant with the enslaved Hebrews after Moses frees them from oppression in Egypt; and just like God renews that covenant with the people as they are about to cross the Jordan River into the promised land under Joshua’s leadership; so now Jesus is calling God’s people into a new covenant of faith and love which will ultimately be ratified in his Body and Blood, his crucifixion and resurrection.

The Sermon on the Mount and the words of the Beatitudes, in particular, become the handbook, a manifesto almost, a rule of life for life in the community of the kingdom of heaven – not just a far away, eventual destination, but God’s kingdom on earth, as it is in heaven. The word “blessed” here can just as well be translated as “wonderful news” an announcement of the life-giving things that God is doing for and through this new community.

Wonderful news for the poor in spirit! Wonderful news for the mourners! Wonderful news for the meek! Wonderful news for people who hunger and thirst for God’s justice; and for the merciful, and the pure in heart, and the peacemakers. And wonderful news for the people who are persecuted and slandered because of God’s way!

All of these are characteristics and hallmarks of living in and for Christ, and Jesus also lays out the results of this rule of life: The kingdom of heaven, the fullness of God, is yours; you’ll be comforted and given solace, but you’ll also be advocated for; and you’ll possess the truly important things in life. You will be filled up and satisfied with God’s justice; you will be on the receiving end of mercy and care; you will be able to see God at work in the world about you, as well as in your own heart. You will know your identity as God’s child and your place in God’s family. You will be living right at the heart of the kingdom of heaven, and you’ll be in very good company – that of the prophets and the saints who got into good trouble for God.

Those are the hallmarks of being a follower of Jesus, of living in God’s way, of being part of the Communion of Saints – that great cloud of faith and witnesses who surrounds us and pray with us.

I have no doubt that these past eight months may have tried and tested your faith in many different ways; and we know that we are not yet at the end of it. So it is really important, crucial actually, that we take time this morning as we are gathered to remember what we are about as Christians, to renew our commitment to following in God’s way, to live and move and have our being in the love and grace of God even as the world around us does not always recognize, or affirm, or accept the Truth and lives by a different reality of its own making.

In a few moments we will renew our baptismal vows, our baptismal covenant. And we will be fed and blessed by the Body of Christ, the Bread of Heaven. That bread is enough – enough to feed us, to shape us, to give us strength for the continuing journey ahead of us. And we pray that we will become that which we receive – the Body of Christ in the world, living, serving, and loving God and all of God’s creation. Amen.

Victoria Geer McGrath
All Saints’ Church, Millington, NJ
All Saints’ Day
November 1, 2020

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What's Your Harvest?

10/6/2020

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Jesus said: Listen to another parable. There was a landowner who planted a vineyard, put a fence around it, dug a wine press in it, and built a watchtower. Then he leased it to tenants and went to another country. When the harvest time had come, he sent his slaves to the tenants to collect his produce. Matthew 21:33-34

This is the time of year when we think about the harvest – at least in the popular mind. We have passed the autumnal equinox, the leaves are turning all their glorious fall colors, there a gourds and mums and bundles of corn stalks everywhere, and every coffee shop is featuring pumpkin spice lattes. In reality, October is the last month of the agricultural harvest season, at least here in the Northeast. And that is true for grapes and vineyards, as well.

For the previous two weeks we have had Gospel readings that make mention of vineyards. In part that is because they were such an important part of daily life in the ancient Middle East; and in part because grape vines were one of the symbols and metaphors for God’s People in the Hebrew Scriptures: vines, fig trees, sheep.

Today’s Gospel not only is a parable that Jesus tells about a vineyard, but it talks about the harvest, the produce of the vineyard. And that theme of harvest connects to where we are in our annual parish cycle – the time in which we focus on our financial stewardship for the coming year. We often think of this season of harvest abundance and reflect on and pray about how we will offer back to God a portion of that abundance to fund the mission and ministries that we have undertaken in Christ’s name here at All Saints’.

That’s a very important conversation to have and reflection to make, especially in this year which has been so up-ended by the pandemic, and we will be having that conversation in a number of different ways over the next weeks. But this week’s Gospel leads us, I believe, to a consideration of something that is both more basic and much bigger than our offerings of time, talent, and treasure.

We pick up where we left off last week. Jesus is in the Temple, the seat of religious, cultural, and (to some extent) civil authority and power. And in Matthew’s chronology this scene takes place after Palm Sunday, after the noisy celebratory parade which accompanied Jesus into Jerusalem. In the Jewish calendar it is just days away from the start of Passover with all its longings for God’s Messiah to come and deliver the people from Roman oppression, as he delivered them from slavery in Egypt. The tension in the city is running high. And Jesus continues to confront the Temple authorities by telling them this parable that Bible editors have labelled “The Parable of the Wicked Tenants.”

It has all the elements to grab the attention of and connect with the Temple leadership – a wealthy landowner, a well-established and provided for agricultural operation, tenant farmers who work the land and harvest the crop for the owner. And because this is a story about a vineyard, the symbolic connection to Israel cannot be overlooked. The owner’s servants get sent to the vineyard to collect the produce, but the tenants have decided to keep the harvest and the profit for themselves and so they refuse, progressively abusing and then murdering the owner’s representatives. When the landowner decides to send his son – essentially arriving in his father’s place – the tenants see a new opportunity: to keep the inheritance for themselves; and they kill the son as well.

That is where the parable ends, and Jesus then turns the focus onto the chief priests and the Pharisees. He asks them what should happen to the tenant farmers, and they rightly proclaim that the landowner should have the tenants put to death and hire new, law-abiding workers. Jesus then goes on to quote Psalm 118, one of the Psalms associated with Passover and with Succoth (or Tabernacles) the harvest festival; it’s that part about the stone which the builders rejected. And he makes a play on words in Hebrew that is not apparent to us in English. The Hebrew word for “stone” is eben, and the word for “son” or “son of” is ben and the only difference between those two words when they are written is a vowel marking that tells the reader to pronounce the initial “e” in eben. So the son in the parable (ben) becomes the stone (eben) which has been rejected by the builders but becomes the chief cornerstone.

This word play helps to drive home Jesus’ point that the Temple authorities are in the role of the tenant farmers when it comes to their stewardship of God’s People. They have ignored the landowner (God), they have beaten and abused the messengers (God’s prophets) and now they are ready to kill the son (the Messiah). Because of all this, Jesus declares to them that God will remove them from their place and role of authority and oversight. Under their leadership God’s people in Judea and Galilee have not produced the spiritual harvest of covenant love and loyalty and faithfulness to God; there has been too much giving-in to Rome and the illegitimate assumptions of Roman power and authority. No wonder the Temple leaders are enraged!

How does this connect to us, in such a different time and place? The connection I want to make is to the Church writ large – especially with the Episcopal Church and “main-line” Protestant denominations in the US and in Europe. For nearly five hundred years our historic, main-line churches had been centers of spiritual authority in many cultures and many countries - powerful witnesses to the truth of God’s love for humankind and a force for good in the world. Over the last forty to fifty years the central role of the Church in society and in the lives of many people has declined. There are many reasons for that decline – a discussion for another day – some of which the Church deserved, and others were not of our own making. But over time that decline has eroded our confidence – our confidence in the Truth (capital T) of Christian faith, our confidence in what we know and believe for ourselves, our confidence in whether anyone who has not already got some sort of grounding in the Church would be interested in hearing about what following Jesus is all about, our confidence in discerning God’s presence and direction in our lives.

While the Church as a whole may not have been exactly like those wicked tenant farmers, the harvest of faith we have offered to God has often been skimpy and the light that we have shone in our neighborhoods and communities and countries has often been peeking out from under a bushel-basket, and our voice has been muffled and indistinct, rather than clear – mostly because we have not been confident, we have lost our nerve, and our faith has not had the room or light or air it needs to grow.

And yet we are at a time where the world sorely needs the love and grace and truth of God as we know it in Jesus, and as we have experienced it in our lives. As Episcopalians we are often hesitant to talk about our faith – because we don’t want to seem pushy, or rigid, or because we don’t want our non-Church-going friends to look at us funny, or maybe because we don’t know how. We don’t have the vocabulary, we don’t feel we can quote the Bible chapter and verse, we think we need to be an expert on Christianity and comparative religion before we can say anything.

But that’s not what God asks of us. We don’t have to be experts; we certainly shouldn’t be pushy or rigid. If you are squeamish about your faith because of what secular friends might say then maybe you need to also develop some friendships with other Christians who can help you become more comfortable with acting and speaking as a Christian. If you feel you don’t know much about the Bible or Christians beliefs, that’s what I’m here for, in part – to offer resources and conversations to help you learn and grow; and there are lots of other folk here at All Saints’ who can help you, too. Faith isn’t just something static that gets handed to you and you either have it or you don’t; there is always room to grow, and we are always stronger together.

And on a larger level we all need to be praying for the renewal and revival of the Church – All Saints’ Church, of course, but the Episcopal Church and the Church universal. The Church needs our prayers, and our willingness to be part of whatever God does next in this time of great upheaval and uncertainty. When the Church and her witness, her voice and action, are diminished by hesitancy or lacking of faithful confidence then there are people in the world who suffer, who go without hope, who go unloved, unfriended, unhoused, unfed, unmoored from truth and goodness, untethered from any connection to God.

This is the harvest we should pray for. This is the abundance God longs to give us, and of which we have been called to be good stewards.

Let us pray.
Lord God, we know that the world is too dangerous for anything but truth and too small for anything but love. Give us the will, the wisdom, and the confidence to be bearers of your truth and love. In Jesus’ Name we pray. Amen.

Victoria Geer McGrath
All Saints’ Church, Millington, NJ

Eighteenth Sunday after Pentecost
October 4, 2020

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God's Generosity: Fairness or Justice?

9/21/2020

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[Jesus said:] “So the last will be first, and the first will be last.” Matthew 20:16

We all like things to be fair, I think – at least if we consider ourselves kind, good, fair-minded people. And certainly as Americans fairness and equity are part of what we say we believe and have built our democracy and our legal system upon: “Equal Justice Under Law” are the words inscribed over the front entrance of the Supreme Court building in Washington, D.C.

Of course, we know that over time and our history we have had to widen our vision and understanding of whom that equality and justice applied to. That has been and continues to be an important work of civic, legislative, and legal conversation that is often hard and messy. But at root, we want to be fair.

And then we have this morning’s Gospel, and the parable that Jesus tells the disciples – the punchline of which is “the last will be first, and the first will be last.” Despite the fact that we may have heard or said those words many times, they probably don’t sit too well with us. Or maybe you are hearing them for the first time and wonder what the heck Jesus is trying to say, because “the last will be first, and the first will be last” is not some truism.

The setting for this parable, this open-ended story, is the scene of a vineyard owner hiring day-laborers to work for him tending vines and picking grapes – a very well-known and common experience in Jesus’ day. The laborers who gather in a spot in the center of town and anyone who had work would come and hire workers for the day; and it wasn’t like taking a number at the deli counter and moving to the front of the line for the next job. An employer would choose whoever he wished. If he didn’t like the looks of you for whatever good or capricious reason, you did not get work.

In the parable Jesus tells us that the landowner hired a crew bright and early in the morning for the going rate. We might assume that he would have had a good sense of the manpower he needed for the work, and so that day’s task would have been done. But we hear that the landowner when back to the public square for more times – at 9, at noon, at 3, and finally at 5 pm, with only an hour left in the workday. We don’t know what motivated the landowner to do this, but all the workers seemed to be glad for the chance to work.

At the five o’clock hour, when the employer asks those left in the hiring place why they are still there they say it’s because no one has hired them. We don’t know why – too young, too old, maybe didn’t seem strong enough, maybe some of them had a reputation for causing trouble, maybe they were new in town and unknown to the employers. The landowner hires all the remaining laborers. They must have felt that even an hour’s wages would be better than nothing.

And yet when the workday is over the owner tells the manager to pay the one-hour workers a full day’s wage. I’m pretty certain those who worked the full day then expected that they would get more than what they contracted for because it looks like the boss is felling really generous today. But that is not, of course, what happens. The landowner pays all the workers the same amount, regardless of the time they worked. And when the twelve-hour workers find out, they are upset, feel that this arrangement is not fair. The employer tells them that he did not go back on his agreement with them; they have not been short-changed from what they have been promised. And Jesus ends the parable by saying “So the last will be first, and the first will be last.”

This does not seem fair to us; and if our own employer did this, we would probably be angry and upset. So, what is going on here? Jesus begins the parable with these words: “The kingdom of heaven is like a landowner…” He’s telling this story to provide a window into God’s nature and expectations for living as disciples in the Kingdom of God, in God’s realm.
It’s important to know that just prior to relating this parable, Jesus had been hearing from the disciples about the things they had sacrificed to follow him, to be on mission with him, that they had been with Jesus since the beginning of his public ministry. They wondered what their standing with him and with God would be as the result of all of that.

What he said to them then, and in this parable that followed, is really about God’s generous grace. God’s love and mercy and compassion, and our ability to know and experience the love of God is not based on our own striving, nor on what we think we deserve, nor on how much we may have done or how much we may have sacrificed for the cause of Christ.

God’s love and grace are offered to us whether we have gone the whole day with Jesus, or just one hour; an entire lifetime, or just at the last minute. God’s love is not contractual; it is generous beyond measure, and we would be foolish to try to compare God’s mercy given to us to God’s mercy given to another person.

So the parable describes the surprising generosity of God – to all people, even to others we may not think deserve it, even to us when we know in our heart of hearts we don’t deserve it. Because God’s love and grace are not about our worthiness, but about God’s goodness.

And then one of the ways that we can return thanks to God for his grace and mercy is by offering it to others, in real time, in real life; to dig below the level of good-but-mere fairness, to dig into the deep well of justice, and mercy, and abundantly generous love that is a hallmark of the kingdom of God. These parables that Jesus tells are here for us to be formed and shaped by them; to fit us and strengthen us to be God’s fellow workers; to make us to be more Christ-like. We live and move and have our being in God’s world, and we show forth God’s praise by living our lives as beacons of generous justice, mercy, and abundant love.

Let us pray.
O God, by whom the meek are guided in judgment, and
light riseth up in darkness for the godly: Grant us, in all
our doubts and uncertainties, the grace to ask what thou
wouldest have us to do, that the Spirit of wisdom may save
us from all false choices, and that in thy light we may see
light, and in thy straight path may not stumble; through
Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

Victoria Geer McGrath
All Saints’ Church, Millington, NJ
Sixteenth Sunday after Pentecost
September 20, 2020

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Step One: Listen

9/6/2020

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Jesus said, “If another member of the church sins against you, go and point out the fault when the two of you are alone. If the member listens to you, you have regained that one. Matthew 18:15

Have you had a fight with anyone in the last week or two? An argument, or a disagreement that was more than momentary? In particular, I’d like you to think of a time when you had a dispute with someone close to you that left you feeling hurt, angry, upset. What was that like? How did it go? And what did you do to get to reconciliation with one another…if you have been able to do that?

This is one of the questions I always ask of couples with whom I am doing pre-marital counselling. It is important, of course, to understand what a fight is about, what are the likely red flags and flashpoints that each individual brings to the relationship. But it is even more important to understand what it takes for them to be able to get to reconciliation. Untold relationships – marriages, friendships, sibling bonds – have crashed on the rocks of simmering resentment, misunderstanding, entrenched anger, and cold-hearted score keeping. The same is true for organizations, communities, and churches, as well, sadly.

Learning the ways of reconciliation are Jesus’ theme in the Gospel today; and they are vital to the Church and to the world if we are not to fall into estrangement and alienation from those we love and those we live among.

In this teaching to the disciples, Jesus paints a very plausible picture. Two disciples have some sort of strenuous difference with one another that leaves the first person hurt and angry. The translation we are using (NRSV) refers to “a member of the church”, but a better translation would be “a disciple”, or “a follower of Jesus.” We need to have in mind that “the Church” meant other believers with whom they were deeply and intimately connected on both a spiritual and a community level, and not just thinking of "a member of the Church" like a dues-paying member of a club.

When this kind of hurt or injustice happens, which Jesus refers to as “sin”, the first thing he says to do is for the injured party to go to the other – one on one - and explain how he or she is feeling, and what it was about the other person’s action that caused the hurt. (That is, as long as it is safe for you to do so.) Show up in person, be honest and direct about the hurt without embellishing or embroidering the pain. The person who is on the receiving end of the complaint is to listen; really listen – not just to the words, but to the hurt and pain that underlie them.

This is really hard to do; most of us use the time the other person is talking to plan out what kind of snappy or cutting or defensive answer we are going to make.

But Jesus says that if the person who has caused hurt and offense listens, and if the two of them are able to work it through, then the relationship will be restored, renewed, “you will have gained a brother or sister.” Reconciliation can often create a stronger, truer relationship than there was before the fight.

Jesus takes the process a few steps further. If the offender won’t listen, and won’t respond to the one they have hurt, then the injured person should try again, this time asking one or two others to come to the meeting as witnesses. This is in keeping with the Old Testament practice of giving evidence. The idea here is not for one side to gang up on the other side, but for there to be mature, impartial, and wise people who can witness the conversation and offer some form of observation and mediation. Listening is important here, also – listening to the wisdom of the observers.

If that doesn’t work, Jesus says, than the person who has been injured is to bring the hurt and the rupture to the notice of the whole Body, the Church, the assembly. In the earliest days this would have meant talking it all through with the assembled believers – several dozen people at most. What’s being described is a community rupture that the entire community would need to be advised about and given an opportunity to weigh in on – after listening to the concerns with prayerfulness and humility. This is not about engaging in gossip or a whisper campaign, nor giving someone a public platform to air grievances during a service. Think of a family meeting rather than a public pillory.

Finally, if the breach has still not been repaired, if reconciliation seems not to be possible (at least at this present moment), then it is best to face up to the fact that the person who has caused the harm has put themselves beyond the bonds of fellowship and community, and so is no longer really a part of the Church’s life.

This is really strong stuff, and it probably makes most of us uncomfortable, because so often our image of Church is a place where we want to smooth over differences in an effort to “all just get along.” And indeed, congregational fights can damage a Church in serious and long-lasting ways.

But what is more important to Jesus is for the community of believers to learn how to be reconciled with one another, to be in a place of trust and honesty and just behavior with one another – as a reflection of our reconciliation with God. The Catechism in the Prayer Book defines the mission of the Church this way: “The mission of the Church is to restore all people to unity with God and each other in Christ.”

Reconciliation with God is at the heart of our faith and discipleship. Reconciliation with one another should be a hallmark of the Church. And we are to exercise our ministry as Jesus-followers in doing our part to bring reconciliation to our family, friends, and neighbors as best as we can so that the Peace of Christ may take root and flourish in society.

This ministry of reconciliation begins with listening, with paying attention. We listen to our own inner experience; we listen with openness and humility to the experience of others. We pay attention to whatever ways the grace of God may be at work in the situation. We offer our willingness to be vulnerable, to have real conversation, to listen (once again) to the wisdom of the Holy Spirit – even if that wisdom comes through the mouth of the one who has hurt us.

Jesus describes this ministry to the disciples –not as a recipe to follow – but so that they will be equipped and skilled and strengthened to be agents of reconciliation in the world, having learned how in the family of faith and the household of the Church. And the world surely needs this ministry now.

Let us pray.
Lord Christ, you have given us to each other as brothers and sisters in the household of faith; help us to listen to your love, truth, and justice in each other’s lives so that we may be equipped to be your ministers of reconciliation in the places you call us to act. We ask this in you holy Name, Amen.

Victoria Geer McGrath
All Saints’ Church, Millington, NJ
Fourteenth Sunday after Pentecost
September 6, 2020
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Gifts for God's Family

8/26/2020

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We have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us: prophecy, in proportion to faith; ministry, in ministering; the teacher, in teaching; the exhorter, in exhortation; the giver, in generosity; the leader, in diligence; the compassionate, in cheerfulness. Romans 12:6-8


What was Christmas morning like when you were a child? I’m sure there was excitement, anticipation, perhaps even frustration if you had to wait for sleepy parents to wake up and give you the okay to leave your room. Because my sister and I had bedrooms upstairs and my parents were downstairs, I remember several Christmas mornings knocking on the floor with a shoe to let our parents know we were up!

Of course, every family has their traditions, their way of doing things, but the quintessential image of Christmas morning (at least in American popular culture) is the children running into the living room and diving into a pile of presents left by Santa under the tree. Some time - and mountain of discarded wrapping paper and ribbon - later the children might get around to sharing with other family members what their gifts were. It’s quite an individualistic approach, and no surprise when we’re talking about children.

But maybe as you got older your family put in place a different way of opening Christmas presents – one that included the whole family. At some point in our family we developed the practice of everyone putting their gifts next to the place where we were each sitting. And then we go around the circle, each opening one gift while everyone else is watching, so we can all share in the joy, or the humor, or the appreciation of the gift. And there are often stories to be told about each gift - what caught the giver’s fancy, or how he or she hoped it would fit with the receiver’s most recent project, or whatever the story might be. Taking the time to open gifts this way helps the whole family to be part of the gift-giving.

In today’s Letter to the Romans St. Paul is reminding that community what it is to be a family of faith, and how they are to share their gifts – the gifts God has given them for the benefit of the whole Body of Christ. We hear this from Paul several times and in several places in his letters.

It was important to him for Christians in these new congregations and in communities widely separated from each other to be solidly grounded in the understanding that they were intimately connected with one another by faith, and interdependent with one another. That why he uses language about being a body and about being a new family – brothers and sisters.

We have two millennia of hearing that language, and so we may just gloss over it as standard Church language, but it was radical in its time. In neither Jewish culture nor pagan Gentile culture were people primed to think that someone outside their biological family, or ethnic group, or geographic area could be or should be their true family.

And yet, that is exactly what Paul is saying. And because Christians are one family, God has given us gifts that we are to share with one another for the benefit of the whole, in service to Christ’s mission in the world. Those gifts are given to us by God’s grace – whether they are gifts we have wanted, or not! – and they differ from each other. Everyone does not get the same gift.

So what were those gifts that Paul mentioned in this passage? He lists seven here, but in other letters he mentions other gifts. Perhaps these were the ones given to the Roman church specifically, or ones they needed to focus on.

He speaks of prophecy, ministry, teaching, exhortation, giving, leading, and compassion. Prophecy, remember, is a direct word from God to the community, not foretelling the future. Ministry has to do with serving others. Teaching refers to interpreting and applying the Hebrew Scriptures, the words of Jesus and the Spirit-led experience of Christian living. Exhortation is encouragement for acting and living as a Christian, almost like coaching. Giving supplies the community with what it needs materially and financially to function properly. Leading reminds us that even though we say that “Christ is the head of the church”, God knows us well enough to know that we need visible human leaders to steer the ship in a Godward direction. Compassionate action is the way we care for those who suffer – within the Church, but especially outside of it. These aren’t just functions, like an organizational chart of who does what, but God-given gifts that benefit and energize God’s mission through us, the Body of Christ.

What is one of the gifts God has given you? It may not be one of these that Paul mentions; there are plenty of others. What is a gift that God has given you that benefits others, that contributes to the life of the Church as it is incarnated at All Saints’? Maybe you know clearly what your gift is, and you are already exercising it – or finding news ways to make use of it.

I know, for instance, that there are many among us with the gift of compassion, and with the gift of serving. We are blessed with some teachers, and a good number of givers, people with artistic and musical gifts. Some of our Saints are gifted intercessors – praying for others; some of gits of skilled crafts or writing. And a gift that may not be unique to us, but is something we are strong in: creative resourcefulness – and the most recent example of that is the new Rummage Thrift Shop that is taking shape: using what we have on hand, looking at it in a different way, and putting it to good use for God’s benefit.

So think for a moment about what your gift or gifts may be. Perhaps there is even some gift that is only now starting to emerge, called forth from the last five months of living in our pandemic framework. Maybe you are just starting to notice it. Or maybe you have been exercising your gifts throughout these last months, but we haven’t been together to see or hear about it.

It would be wonderful to have a line or two in an email or on a postcard from each one of you that said something like: “One of my gifts from God is…. And I have been putting it to good use these last five months by….” If you do that, you can help us to see more clearly the gifts that God has given to us as a whole for the ministry of the Church. It will also help us to understand more clearly how God has been at work in our midst, even when we haven’t been able to be together. It’s like our family taking turns opening our Christmas gifts one at a time, so we can each enjoy and appreciate what everyone has received. Because the more you exercise the good gifts God has given you, the stronger they become, the more visible God's presence is, and the greater your joy will be.

Let us pray.
Almighty God our heavenly Father, you declare your glory and show forth your handiwork in the heavens and in the earth: Deliver us in our various occupations from the service of self alone, that we may do the work you give us to do in truth and beauty and for the common good; for the sake of him who came among us as one who serves, your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen. ~ BCP


Victoria Geer McGrath
All Saints’ Church, Millington, NJ
Twelfth Sunday after Pentecost
August 23, 2020
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